Thursday, January 8, 2009

Baby Moon


Most of you already know that we are expecting a baby in June. This process was not as we were expecting. We thought after a couple of months we would get preggnant right away. We were wrong. Although many people can get pregnant right away, we were not one of them. We trusted in God's timing (Although it wasn't always easy) and realized after this whole deal. His timing is FLAWLESS! He has been good to us! I'm almost half way and Andy just said last night after giggling and feeling my tummy. "Wow, I can really feel that you are pregnant!" Although I have been feeling it for awhile, it's now starting to get more noticable!

We decided to go on one last little "Romantic Getaway" before the baby is born, when we wouldn't have to worry about babies, or babysitters. After some planning, and saving we decided to go to Cozumel, Mexico. AHHHHHHHHHHHH, it was amazing! A trip we won't forget!
Our BABY MOON!
While we were there we did alot of RELAXING!

Some snorkling (Cozumel is known for this)

We had some better pics then this one, but we couldn't resist how pretty my bottom teeth are in this one!
We also rented a jeep on one day to cruise to the other side of the island and watch an AMAZING sunrise!

We couldn't stop there so we rented scooters! Super Fun!
Our resort was an all inclusive so we enjoyed all the food, drinks, and watersports that we wanted. Here Andy learned how to sail! We were probably about a couple hundred yards out but could still see the bottom on the ocean. It was BEAUTIFUL out there!

While there we took my 4 month pregnacy picture! For sure this will be the only and last one where I'm wearing a bikini! Oh Boy!

It was truly a wonderful, relaxing vacation with just the two of us! A perfect way to start this new journey!

Sunday, July 6, 2008

We're Home!



We are going to try to summarize a jam packed 2 weeks. If you want to know even more, we'd be happy to meet or talk with any of you or answer any questions you might have. Don’t hesitate to ask!

General Facts

- Working for the Kingdom: There is ratio of 1 Jesus follower trying to bless to 3.4 million Pak. people.

-In a city of a million we realized one day as we prayed that we might very well be the only followers of Jesus in that place.

-Places of heartbreaking poverty—we visited a team in Karachi that works among 6 sq. km that is home to 1.5 million people. We girls got to visit the small home of one family and talk to a young woman who is the only income for her family.

-Strategic location—Pak. is surrounded by major countries that could be used to help mobilize workers into into these two closed countries.

Persons of Peace

Luke 10 speaks of persons of peace, and we prayed much for them. Of course, God answered way beyond our expectations! There were many examples, but specifically two men in particular really had a huge impact on our travels. We met the first a few minutes after we set foot in the first town we were to explore on our own. It was evening time in the middle of nowhere still scorching hot. (approx. 100 degrees) All we saw were signs for was a rent-a-car service, no taxis…uh oh. We’re all wondering what is next as our leader Andy K. starts talking to people.

As it happened, Andy met the owner of the car service who agreed to drive us around the next few days and he spoke great English! The bigger blessing was that he was able to get us around to all the places we wanted to see, including a university where we had one of our first interactions with women. In so many ways, our time there was blessed by him, and we were able to accomplish so much through his help.

Soheel, Ashgar, and Andy

In our next city, God blessed us even more…though it was a little more interesting meeting this man of peace. We arrived at the guesthouse that we were connected to by the owner in Karachi to find a broken generator and really hot rooms. Since we were Americans who couldn’t take the 110 degree heat without any fans or AC, we decided to relocate and went to the guesthouse nearby. This is of course when we met the owner Shahid who practically was family by the end of our 3 days there. He gave us rides places, had his son and wife help us shop, invited us to his home, had his wife cook for us, and met some of his extended family! Not to mention we had a guide in his 11 year old son.

Our 11 year old guide-Shahid's son, Hanan

Lead by the Spirit

Another huge aspect of this trip was the fact that we really had to rely on the Spirit to show us next steps. The first day we arrived in Islamabad we were faced with the choice to attempt to go to Gilgit (the northern city) or go south to Karachi. Flights to Gilgit were backed up at least 2 days. After some discussion we all thought God was telling us to visit the team in Karachi, who expressed definite interest in having us. Later we found out there were problems in Gilgit and it wouldn't have been a great place for us at the time. So God shut that door for a reason and led us to a great couple and minstry that focus's on the Baloch people in an area of extreme poverty.


They helped us with a lot of basic information in the country. We also got to hear of all they are doing in that portion of the country and through a connection of their’s we were still able to get the Farleys time to meet with a couple who will be going to the northern areas. This just happened to give us some awesome coolness in the mountains on our last day which was amazing after days in the heat and sweating profusely.

Last day in the cool mountain air :) Of course drinking tea!

Everyday, God showed us what He wanted us to do, sometimes by our mistakes. We thought we were going to visit a university one day, but ended up at a primary school closed for the summer! They showed us into the principal’s office which had to be one of the most awkward moments ever because it was so stiff and official…standing straight up and silent. He then invited us to tea after our tour of the empty campus. When we got back, we ended up having a great conversation. He answered every question we asked very honestly and intelligently and spoke better English than we did! Talk about God answering prayers. We just asked for English speakers, and He gives a man that had the kingdom in his eyes!

The principal in action

In the next town, we ended up in KFC just because it was close to our guesthouse and ended up meeting so many people. The guys in particular got to make many contacts in the city just from KFC. Who’d have thought the center of the city was KFC? God definitely led us to some interesting places that’s for sure. Zanzabar anyone?!?

Some of the men that were so eager to practice their English.

Reaching Out to Women

A big prayer of ours was that we would be able to meet and get into the lives of women. At times we doubted that God would provide as we struggled in a culture where women have a very different role. The epitome of our frustration could be summarized when we were walking up a street in Multan and I could estimate seeing 1 woman among 200 men.

But God answered despite our doubt and discouragement, we were able to have a great discussion at the university with two women about culture and what they value. I was able to speak a little truth in the conversation in sharing the story of Jesus’ two greatest commands of loving God and one another.

Women at the university

Janessa, also got into a conversation with a woman at the bus station (another answered prayer as we were praying that God would use us during the traveling/sitting times) The woman said it was her and her father’s dream that she become a doctor, so that she could go back to the village she is from. She said it is a problem in many villages that women cannot get care because there are no female health care workers there. (Women are not allowed to see a male Doctor)

We were also completely blessed to talk to several women on one of our last days first when we went to a park and then with Shahid’s family. The ladies had a great conversation with a young woman in the park. It was great because I felt that she really opened up to us, but it hurt to hear that something she struggled with most is loneliness. Janessa shared with her that when we feel lonely, to remember Jesus’ promise that He will be with us always and never forsake us. Sadly, this is how many women there may feel.

Me, Shabnum, and her cousin who made our time in the park awesome!

On a lighter note though, we got to see the liveliness of women through Shahid’s sisters. They spoke great English, and I particularly enjoyed them since they were downright hilarious. It was encouraging to see these different sides of women in the culture as we struggled with feeling as though they did not really have a personal identity. God again answered prayer!

Those spunky ladies, the life of the party

Thanks so much for all your prayers and support of this trip. As you can see, God answered our prayers and then some! Keep praying for these people, that God would provide workers for this ripe harvest. When we ask, He answers! Please scroll down to the June 15th posting. Read through the prayer requests again and praise the Lord because he answered EVERY ONE OF THEM!!!!!!!
We went and visited G'ma Meade yesterday, she looked great but needed to take a nap while we were there.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Praise God!

Today is THE DAY! We leave Iowa City at noon to make our way in the impala, all 6 of us (we like to be CLOSE! :) Continue to lift up the things listed below, but be PRAISIN' GOD for a couple things.

  • He blew us away with funding! In four days we received COMPLETE funding! God was faithful and so were His people! Thank you all. You are taking part in something special!
  • Andy started feeling much better, even Monday morning. (I caught a little cold now though :)

Sunday, June 15, 2008

5 days to go!

Only five more days until we fly out to Pakistan! Thank you all for your financial and prayer support. Here is our updated prayer list!

Now until Friday

  • Andy and I are now 1/2 way to our financial support. Pray that God would BLOW us away in 5 days and that people would desire to take part in something really special: To team up with us to gather information for others so they may someday reach the unreached!
  • G'ma Meade- She has not been feeling well at all lately. Pray that she would stay with us while we are gone
  • Andy has been feeling sick the last couple of days. Pray that God would heal him and make him well for our travels.
  • We depart Chicago at 9 pm on Friday night. Pray for safe travels to Islamabad.
After arrival in Islamabad: Iowa Time 7pm Saturday, June 21.
  • Pray for our team to be united in purpose (Glorifying God and serving others)
  • We’ll be finding places to stay and ways of travel as we go, so pray we meet people who can help us.
  • Pray for people who are willing to help us with the research aspect of our trip.
  • Pray we would meet women on the streets to talk to as half of our team is women.
  • Pray we use opportunities to proclaim the Kingdom of God with boldness
  • Pray for the Suraiki people (that Workers will move to their area and they would be reached for the Kingdom).
Home bound- depart Islamabad Iowa Time: 9 pm on Tuesday, July 1
  • Pray we would have a clear answer from God about our future in this area.
  • Again, safe travels!
  • Praise God for the chance to participate in this trip
We'll fill you in on ALL details when we get home!

Love you ALL!

Grace and Peace!

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Entering an Open Door


Dear Family and Friends,

Hopefully you’re all doing well and enjoying springtime after a long winter!!! Since our trip to Jordan in March, we have been continuing our search for knowledge about the Kingdom of God, and more directly how it relates to Muslims through a year-long internship-type adventure. Our group in Iowa City consists of 16 people, married and single who are committed to moving overseas to tell those who haven’t heard about the Kingdom of God. We’ve been learning Jesus stories and trying to meet Muslims in Iowa City to bring up spiritual conversations while sharing our lives with them. It has been very challenging -a learning process to say the least- but rewarding too as God is doing mighty things here!

June 20 through July 2 there will be six of us, Lord willing, that are going to put this into practice overseas- in Pakistan! The first three days will be spent in northern Pakistan where we will meet with a team who has been there several years and has done a number of various development projects. The focus for the rest of the trip will be the Seraiki people group. There are approximately 30 million speakers of the Seraiki language throughout Pakistan, India, and Afghanistan with 18 million in Pakistan. There are currently no known believers and no foreigners focused on these people, which make them an unengaged people group with very little chance at this point to hear about Jesus.


We will have three goals while we are there: the first will be to survey the area and some teams who are already well established to see if this is a place God would have us go long-term; the second goal is to visit a few district capitals in Pakistan where millions of the Seraiki people live to see if there are any special trades, crafts, or other things that would help someone coming from the outside find a professional trade to work among them. For example, there is a people group in Pakistan that produces mango trees, so a foreigner could come in and start a dried-mango export business to bless the people. We would be doing bits of research to see if the Seraiki have any niches to aid a foreign worker in obtaining a visa so they could share truths about the Kingdom of God while working there. Our internship group has been learning and living together for the past year here in Iowa City, and now we get a chance to do it overseas and possibly form a team with each other- this is our third goal.

This past year, we have been learning a lot about God’s characteristics, the power of prayer and stories Jesus told. One story we have learned is the story about the persistent widow (Luke 18) who continued to ask a judge to give her justice, and although the judge did not care if the widow was given justice, he gave it to her because she kept asking until he couldn’t stand to listen to her any more. God is like the judge in that He has the power to give us justice and grant mercy, yet He loves His children and desires for there to be justice in the World. When we continue to ask Him we firmly believe He will grant our requests because He sees our persistence. Pakistan is an area of the World that needs justice desperately and we can hope for good and for someone to do something, but in the end God’s truth is the answer. We might not have many chances to share God’s truth on this trip because of the language barrier and the short time we’ll be there, but we are hoping to help other people get there so they can share His truth. Would you pray for our survey and our team persistently so that in the near future the Seraiki may be granted justice to hear the truth about the Kingdom of God?

Our team is collectively raising $15,000. Please prayerfully consider if this is something God would have you take part in. Please make checks out to: Parkview Church, and return to us at: 1802 Calvin Ct. #3 Iowa City, IA 52246. (Put Pakistan in the memo line, not our names).

Grace and Peace,
The Bishops :)